Those We Throw Away Are Diamonds by Mondiant Dogon

Kondo’s approach is the opposite: she says we should concentrate instead on what we’re going to keep. When we have a clearout, most of us tend to focus on what we’re going to throw away. Focus not on what to chuck, but on what to keep As Dogon once wrote in a poem, 'Those we throw away are diamonds.Here she reveals the secrets to dealing effectively with the heartstring-tugging detritus of family life: the stuff we can’t bear to part with, but which we know we can’t keep stashing away.ġ. But through his writing, Dogon took control of his own narrative and spoke up for forever refugees everywhere. We see them only for a moment, if at all, in flight: Syrians winding through the desert children searching a Greek shore for their parents families gathered at the southern border of the United States. Rarely do refugees get to tell their own stories. Though he hid his status from his fellow students out of shame, eventually he would emerge as an advocate for his people. Yet Dogon managed to be one of the few refugees he knew to go to college. For most refugees, the camp starts as an oasis but soon becomes quicksand, impossible to leave. He fled back to Congo in search of the better life that had been lost, but there he was imprisoned and left without any option but to become a child soldier. For much of his life, Dogon and his family ate barely enough to keep themselves from starving. Even though Rwanda famously has a former refugee for a president in Paul Kagame, refugees in that country face enormous prejudice and acute want. Hideous violence stalked them in the camps. But their search for a safe haven had just begun. They made their way to the first of several UN tent cities in which they would spend decades.

Dogon's family fled into the forest, initiating a long and dangerous journey into Rwanda. A New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice * Named a Best Nonfiction Book of 2021 by Kirkus * A New York Times Book Review Paperback Row Selection * Shortlisted for the Moore Prize for Human Rights Writing A stunning and heartbreaking lens on the global refugee crisis, from a man who faced the very worst of humanity and survived to advocate for displaced people around the world One day when Mondiant Dogon, a Bagogwe Tutsi born in the Democratic Republic of Congo, was only three years old, his father's lifelong friend, a Hutu man, came to their home with a machete in his hand and warned the family they were to be killed within hours.

Those We Throw Away Are Diamonds by Mondiant Dogon